Как повторно использовать раскадровку с VisualStateManager в Silverlight 5

Похоже, вам следует ввести свой собственный Button класс. Я бы сделал так:

<my:GlowingArrowButton ArrowDirection="Left"/>

И ваш generic.xaml:

<Style TargetType="my:GlowingArrowButton">
    <Setter Property="Cursor" Value="Hand"/>
    <Setter Property="Template">
        <Setter.Value>
            <ControlTemplate TargetType="my:GlowingArrowButton">
                <Grid x:Name="grdRoot" RenderTransformOrigin="0.5,0.5">
                    <Grid.RowDefinitions>
                        <RowDefinition Height="Auto"/>
                        <RowDefinition Height="Auto"/>
                    </Grid.RowDefinitions>
                    <VisualStateManager.VisualStateGroups>
                        <VisualStateGroup x:Name="CommonStates">
                            <VisualStateGroup.Transitions>
                                <VisualTransition From="MouseOver" GeneratedDuration="0:0:0.165"/>
                            </VisualStateGroup.Transitions>
                            <VisualState x:Name="Normal"/>
                            <VisualState x:Name="MouseOver"
<Storyboard>
    <DoubleAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="1.25" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(UiElement.RenderTransform).(ScaleTransform.ScaleX)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon"/>
    <DoubleAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="1.25" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(UiElement.RenderTransform).(ScaleTransform.ScaleY)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon"/>
    <ColorAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="#FF9BD6FF" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(Shape.Fill).(GradientBrush.GradientStops)[1].(GradientStop.Color)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon" d:IsOptimized="True"/>
    <ColorAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="#FF70ACDF" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(Shape.Fill).(GradientBrush.GradientStops)[0].(GradientStop.Color)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon" d:IsOptimized="True"/>
    <ColorAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="#FF7DAEFF" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(Shape.Stroke).(GradientBrush.GradientStops)[1].(GradientStop.Color)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon" d:IsOptimized="True"/>
    <ColorAnimation Duration="0:0:0.165" To="#FF2B5CB4" Storyboard.TargetProperty="(Shape.Stroke).(GradientBrush.GradientStops)[0].(GradientStop.Color)" Storyboard.TargetName="polygon" d:IsOptimized="True"/>
</Storyboard>
                            </VisualState>
                            <VisualState x:Name="Pressed"/>
                            <VisualState x:Name="Disabled"/>
                        </VisualStateGroup>
                    </VisualStateManager.VisualStateGroups>


                  <LayoutTransformer
                         LayoutTransform="{Binding Path=ArrowDirection,
                           RelativeSource={RelativeSource TemplatedParent},
                           Converter={StaticResource RotationTranslator_ToBeImplemented}}"
                         Grid.Row="0"
                         HorizontalAlignment="Center">
                    <Polygon
                        x:Name="polygon"

                        Margin="1"
                        StrokeThickness="{TemplateBinding BorderThickness}"

                        RenderTransformOrigin="0.5,0.5">
                        <Polygon.Points>
                            <Point X="10"/>
                            <Point X="0" Y="5" />
                            <Point Y="10" X="10" />
                        </Polygon.Points>
                        <Polygon.RenderTransform>
                            <ScaleTransform />
                        </Polygon.RenderTransform>
                        <Polygon.Fill>
                            <LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,0" StartPoint="0.5,1">
                                <GradientStop Color="#FFA9A9A9"/>
                                <GradientStop Color="#FFD3D3D3" Offset="1"/>
                            </LinearGradientBrush>
                        </Polygon.Fill>
                        <Polygon.Stroke>
                            <LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,0" StartPoint="0.5,1">
                                <GradientStop Color="#FF696969"/>
                                <GradientStop Color="#FF939393" Offset="1"/>
                            </LinearGradientBrush>
                        </Polygon.Stroke>
                    </Polygon>
                 </LayoutTransformer>


                    <ContentPresenter
                        Grid.Row="1"
                        HorizontalAlignment="{TemplateBinding HorizontalContentAlignment}"
                        VerticalAlignment="{TemplateBinding VerticalContentAlignment}"/>
                </Grid>
            </ControlTemplate>
        </Setter.Value>
    </Setter>
</Style>

И код:

public class GlowingArrowButton : ButtonBase
{
    public GlowingArrowButton()
    {
        DefaultStyleKey = typeof (GlowingArrowButton);
    }

    public ArrowDirection ArrowDirection
    {
        get { return (ArrowDirection) GetValue( ArrowDirectionProperty ); }
        set { SetValue( ArrowDirectionProperty, value ); }
    }

    public static readonly DependencyProperty ArrowDirectionProperty =
        DependencyProperty.Register( "ArrowDirection", typeof( ArrowDirection ), typeof( GlowingArrowButton ), new PropertyMetadata( default( ArrowDirection ) ) );
}

public enum ArrowDirection
{
    Left,
    Up,
    Right,
    Down
}

[Edit] Написано, но не проверено:

public class RotationTranslator : IValueConverter
{
    public object Convert(object value, Type targetType, object parameter, CultureInfo culture)
    {
        var arrowDirection = (ArrowDirection) value;
        switch (arrowDirection)
        {
                case ArrowDirection.Left: return new RotateTransform{ Angle = 0 };

                case ArrowDirection.Up: return new RotateTransform { Angle = 90 };

                case ArrowDirection.Right: return new RotateTransform { Angle = 180 };

                case ArrowDirection.Down: return new RotateTransform { Angle = -90 };
        }
        throw new InvalidOperationException();
    }

    public object ConvertBack(object value, Type targetType, object parameter, CultureInfo culture){throw new NotSupportedException();}
}

Storyboard требуется расширение разметки DynamicResource, а "Silverlight не поддержка динамических ресурсов. "Strewth.